How do you get over this at all?

Just stop thinking about her. She's gone. You can change the way things are in your life, but her business is hers. time is the best medicine, let it heal your wounds. if you just stop thinking about her which btw i know is not a piece of cake, feelings of love should fade away with time. it took me 3 years to get over my ex, but i also had an emotional disorder. But the bottom line is, i DID get over my ex..